How do you make someone miss you? Easy! You make yourself disappear. If you want to get your ex back, then use the no contact rule to make yourself scarce.

This trick is easy: simply stop messaging, calling and seeing your ex. It may be hard during the first few days since you’re used to speaking with your ex regularly, but it will get easier within a week.

You ex will suddenly start to wonder what happened to you. He may even call you a few times to see what you’ve been doing. Resist the temptation to answer the phone when he calls!

After a few weeks of no contact, you can start speaking with you ex again. However, only break the silence if you have a solid plan for how to get your ex back. You don’t want to start speaking again and fall into the same old arguments with him.